You have a
treasure of vocabulary terms related to various fields. You know the rules, their uses and
limitations. You read a novel or
newspaper and refer to a dictionary not frequently. In other words, you have got a very good
base.
You can write
small articles on general themes. But
what happens you falter while speaking to a group of people or addressing an
unknown audience. All of a sudden you
begin stammering and choose to use
individual words amidst your vernacular language.
Don’t worry or
feel disheartened, as this is normal with non native speakers. Obviously, mastering a foreign language is
not that easy but not difficult as well and this should be kept in mind. Everyone experiences this kind of problem
while speaking in English.
Very often, I
hear this kind of problem from my friends.
I also read this kind of problems by users in various English language
forums. People learning English language
face the syndrome of ‘I can’t speak, you speak first.’
Those who have
got their education in vernacular languages face this problem and it is but
normal. No doubt, those students who
have got their education in English medium schools also face this problem but
the percentage is meager as far as speaking in English is concerned.
There are so
many causes of this stammering or inhibition while speaking in English or
presenting something to a group of people or attending a group discussion.
- The fear to commit mistake always help choking while speaking.
- The phobia of being exposed and offended by others in case of mistakes.
- Mistakes makes a man perfect if one learns from them. Don’t fear to commit mistakes but don’t repeat a mistake too.
- The audience phobia.
- Inferiority complexion.
- To think others as superior.
- Editing while speaking.
- Attempt to be flawless.
In a globalize world everyone wants to excel in his or her field and wants to
stand out in crowd. Those who have got
good communication and presentation skill always stand out and receive
encomiums from others. They always taste
success in their respective careers and skills.
There are
positive ways to improve and tackle this problem.
- Be confident and believe in yourself or your skill.
- Be a good listener first. A good speaker always happens to be good listener. Those who don’t pay attention while other speakers tend to falter very often while speaking.
- Know your skill or theme first then try to speak. For this read newspaper, books, periodicals and listen to news. A good reader converse well.
- Be a keen observer. Observe others closely.
- Develop a sense of humor and take everything lightly. Always sport a smile and shed any fear or phobia or inhibition.
- Be positive in your attitude and try to accommodate opposite views even if you don’t subscribe to those view points.
- Be polite and praise others but don’t flatter.
- Right body language like eye contact is important.
If you are
attending a group discussion with known theme then do a research on the theme
and gather as much information as possible.
This would allow you to present your view points in a persuasive and
effective manner.
If you are asked
to speak impromptu then your reading habit would help you in a great way. Good speakers are good readers and as they
read varied things they tend to present themselves effectively without any
prior research.
First know then
present something. Public speaking is a
very important aspect of today’s requirement if you are pursuing a career out
side your country. If you are pursuing a
career inside state or country then also you require skill in English language
as today’s world is globalize and client base is not only intra national but
international.
Speak clearly and effectively. Try to neutralize your accents and weed out local tinge as far as possible.
Speak clearly and effectively. Try to neutralize your accents and weed out local tinge as far as possible.
Thanks
thanks. i am a very bad public speaker. hope this will help me to conquer my fear.
ReplyDeleteKurt what a pleasant surprise you came here! Thanks for the comment. I also wish you speak like a flow. How is your study going on?
ReplyDeleteEverything is treating me well here. I still have 6 months to finish this off and go back to my hometown Malaysia for good. Seriously, can't wait!
ReplyDelete@kurt Wish you good luck.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful, simple and encouraging post. You have certainly done justice to our thoughts and have been able to throw some light on key areas. Would like to hear / read similar posts in the future.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing
Barkha Dhar
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I also Thank for your post. I like speaking but in some cases I can not avoid the influence of my native language when it comes to me a sentence that I never use in earlier time. It could be for me to improve my listening activity. Stammering is also one of the big problem I have when I speak English in a forum. It would be better for me to apply your tips.
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